It sounds an awful lot like military training, doesn't it? With a female drill sergeant.
While I have no trouble with micro-managing a partner, the last thing on the planet I would ever seek is for him to never speak. It seems to me that this is just what many men would like: to not have to talk about their feelings or learn how to be emotionally supportive. They get to do the tasks assigned that provide them with comfort and arousal *and* they don't have to hear about all that girly mushy stuff.
Okay..... How exactly is this not selfishness? How does this benefit a woman unless she's completely unidimensional? I mean really. Okay so she's got a clean house and sexual service on command.... But where is the relationship part? Maybe this is fine for a part time playmate you don't care about but who could sustain a relationship like this? Who would want to? Not I!
This falls under several categories of kink I find completely disingenuous, that are all sold as "ways to serve", but serve no one but the sub. I find the whole thing distasteful.
If you serve me, it's to serve my needs. If you are only interested in your own, you already lost my interest. I'm not here to be a provider of your kink for you, and I'll be damned if I'm going to take on another job in my life, for example, milking your prostate every day. Um, no. If we are even going to pretend that this is about me, then this is not how it works at all.
I don't find taking on another job even remotely sexy. I find a boy doing things for me without self interest, however, very sexy, very loving, and very appealing.