Some of these are internet memes. Others are my own creation. Still others are just terms I've found and consider useful. This is a list of terms I use frequently that you may or may not be familiar with. I will add to this page as needed.
fap: jerk off/wank
pr0n: porn
Spheres of Dominance: my own model for the realms within which people dominate or seek to be dominated and how they interact with each other.
union: my idea of how love should be: a symbiotic relationship where both give to each other selflessly, where the love of the two becomes almost a third entity