What these bozos really ought to be saying is that they don't want to have to get emotionally involved in the situation cuz that's what they really mean. They're afraid she might get clingy and needy. God forbid, she have normal female emotions that are messy and confusing for these poor, emotionally-stunted morons.
My most recent ex pulled this crap on me too.... He was really big on semantics. He kept correcting me all the time about the difference of want and need... Yes, I said *correcting ME* on the difference which I found infuriating. I tried to let it slide because we had much bigger issues than this in particular. But, dear reader, it won't take you long to see a pattern of incompatibility a mile long.
I mentioned in my profile that I am sensitive. Let me clarify. I'm empathic. That means I am deeply in tune with the emotions of the people around me. If you are unsettled, I am unsettled. His emotions were dark. He lives with everything bottled up like if one day if you popped the top he'd go on a homicidal rampage. He lives in constant fear of what is inside the bottle. So if you are empathic and you have the tremendous upheaval of moving across coast on the hopes and dreams of being with the one you'd love for the rest of your life and this bottle, and a whole lot of uncertainty on his part, is presented right after you de-board the plane, you will most likely panic as I did. So did I want reassurance or did I need it?
Listen up, Mr Need/Want. If you want to go about your life seeking sexual thrills, by all means have at it. DON'T, however, try to have a real relationship because you just aren't qualified. You, in fact, will fail miserably making both you and your intended very unhappy.
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